"Fates"

When will the three of us meet again: in thunder, lightning or in rain?

To think that I actually used to quote that at one point of time!!!

Coming Together

What brings people together?

Excerpt of a particular chat.

...

X: Oh, okay

so you and Y friends now huh

me: as much as in the beginning...

not much progress

we say less than a sentence a day to each other

how dyu expect us to be friends so soon, lol! ;)

X: how did we become friends?

me: we spoke MORE THAN ONE SENTENCE a day

X: in like less than days.. we were talkin about possibly everything under the sun

me: yes, thats how we became frnds!

its hard to distinguish the cause and the effect here

...

No seriously. What brings people together? Why are we even friends?

lose yourself

"Where am I,

Who am I,

Doesn't really matter...

Homeless and in tatters thats our life.

Where am I,

Who am I,

The die is cast, the game is on,

This is now where we belong."

Ok, just that will not really express how I feel, cuz I've felt that way quite a bit before. I'll have to add, I'm losing sight of myself here.

epsilys

Trust. Is definitely the most complicated thing I've been thinking about recently. Simply because I just can't understand the why's of trust-dynamics! Its all become extremely counter-intuitive, and I have no idea why.

Do You even care if I trust You or not? -I wish I knew the answer to that!

Decaying Relationships

Thought out earlier today.

Suppose you keep mailing this guy, and he keeps replying, and this basically continues for a while. You look forward to his reply, and you mail him yours...

One day, he naturally cuts down his online/email usage. Naturally the relationship you've built till now, stops progressing and begins to decay. The natural course of things ends up in rare transactions etc.

Who is at fault? Is it even bad in the first place (its worse than the other case, but is it bad)? Is there anything either one party can do to revive it?

People: listen to Puff the Magic Dragon.

"...Children live forever, but not so children's toys,

Wagons can't forever be friends to little boys..."

Oh my Daaarlin' Clementine!

Clementine: "Most guys think I'm some kind of concept; that I complete them in some way. I'm just a fucked-up girl looking for her peace of mind."

Help

Don't ask me for help; and don't make a point of not asking me either.

Undermining

If you willingly do something that you know will most likely greatly undermine your relationship with xyz, I'd have to say that you are at the point where you seriously consider your relationship with xyz rather screwed.

[for the times I've been an xyz, I humbly apologize to you]

But what if xyz values his relationship with you? What if what you do does undermine you relationship with him? Aren't you being rather selfish? Are you justified in taking this step?

Farewell

Why is it that we always love having the last word in a conversation? Its like

me: k, gtg, ttyl.

x: k, cya.

me: bye.

x: tc.

me: u too.

x: gnite.

me: ya bye.

x: bye

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Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?

Now is not the right time/context to say this... I should have felt this a little earlier but anyway...

I have lost faith in the goodwill responsibility of people who are entrusted with things. Nobody can guard the guards, and hence, everybody kinda loses.

The black hole

Shortly earlier, I put up a post called The Black Box.

I think its more like a Black Hole in actuality. The tinted glass thing was good, and I suppose this blog is what a physicist might call Hawking radiation?

Anonymous

to allow anonymous comments or not - that is the question.

I'd go for allow. Gives a person the choice to hide behind a virtual veil and come clean in ways they otherwise wouldn't have the choice to.

Somehow, I've just faced a few blogs with NO anonymous commenting.

Its always hard to come face-to-face with someone who thinks diametrically opposite to you. "What are they THINKING!!!"

flirting

Flirting's like jumping off a cliff and telling yourself you'll worry about hitting the bottom once you reach there.

Voluntary or Involuntary, that is the question

"Can't help falling in love" - a song by Elvis Presley.

My question. Is falling in love involuntary? Is that you just can't help yourself? Or maybe you can voluntarily disallow yourself from loving, or voluntarily make yourself fall in love?

The line between the two may be thin...

but I have my own views...

Love is in the air.

er.